A time will come where you will have to be sexual with your partner, and at that time, if you do not feel happy with your sex life, your relationship’s health may face a downfall.
Mutual masturbation is not explicit sex, but it is the act where you and your partner pleasure each other as a form of intimacy and affection. You can act out mutual masturbation face-to-face or through virtual means like video calls.
Tips for mutual masturbation
Communication helps in removing the awkwardness between you and your partner and tells you about your partner’s desires. Knowing what your partner wants helps during mutual masturbation as you know what to do. Asking your partner what they want to do during the act can make things awkward and kill the mood. Similarly, communicate your desires with your partner beforehand to help them feel comfortable.
Take note of your breathing pattern. Deeper breaths let you feel more sensual pleasures in your body. Try to keep your breath steady by inhaling through your nose and exhaling through your mouth.
Be vocal. Let go of your preconceived notions, and feel free to express your pleasure with moans and sighs. Not only will it elevate your confidence but also your partner’s. Let your partner know that you feel satisfied with their actions and boost their confidence.
You can touch yourself a little at first to lend a hand. It is completely optional, but your pleasure is extremely necessary during mutual masturbation.
Once it is over, stay close to your partner and let the elevated feeling run over you. Do not get up immediately; recall the whole experience and pleasure you and your partner gave each other.
Just like communicating before mutual masturbation, talk about it after it ends. Let your partner know how you felt, what you liked, and what you did not. Listen to their views on your pleasuring acts to know your strong suit and weak spots so that you can rectify them next time.
Benefits of mutual masturbation
The first benefit of masturbation is that you feel confident in front of your partner regarding your body and pleasuring skills. Mutual masturbation also increases your bond’s intimacy, trust, and love. It adds a sense of thrill to your boring life and relaxes your body by releasing endorphins.
Risks in mutual masturbation
The only two risks in mutual masturbation are the transmission of STDs and pregnancy. You can avoid STDs by washing hands or wearing latex gloves before pleasuring yourself or your partner, and you can avoid pregnancy through contraceptive measures.
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